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Strange times: Coronavirus pandemic

Hi Alexander,

It has been quite a while since I wrote to you here but these are strange times. You're actually strapped to me right now as I type this but that's how it goes these days. We are living in a pandemic. The coronavirus that causes the illness COVID-19 has caused much of the country to shut down for months. Your dad and I have been self-quarantining since mid-March. States are just reopening after officials shut it down to help slow the spread of the virus. Businesses were shuttered, schools closed and classes - for all ages - transitioned to online. I am sure you will learn about this time in school later on. It is an once in a century event.

I wasn't planning on taking maternity photos but with all the time on the world on my hands I figured why not. I got dressed up, set up my phone on a tripod in the backyard and convinced your dad to take the photos. It turned out pretty good if I do say so myself. I know I will cherish them as time goes on. Here are some of my favorite photos from that day.





The pandemic and resulting social distancing guidelines put a damper on plans to celebrate your arrival. There were two baby showers planned and both had to be canceled/postponed. One actually turned into a drive-by shower. A few of my favorite people made the drive from Mobile to our home in Pascagoula to drop off gifts and get a glimpse of you. I have to tell you, it was really nice to see my friends and it meant the world to me that they made the trip to see you.


Up until this day, I saw your GG a few times and your aunts and uncles on your dad's side once. My parents and brothers have yet to meet you because of the pandemic. They can't quarantine so I just don't feel comfortable with possibly exposing you to this virus. It breaks my heart but my top priority is your well-being. I am hoping you can meet them later on this summer. For now, you're still safe at home with me and I want to keep it that way.

Next up, your birth story. I'll explain how you had a surprise for me and your dad the day before we were set to welcome you into this world.

Love you forever,
Mom

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